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anonymous
writes:A small problem.. my girlfriend and i have been going out for around 6 months and her mum actually wants us to take our relationship further. We are both virgins and we havent explored each others body fully. However my mum doesn't want us to do anything and she thinks i am the goody goody. I believe i am old enough to make decisions for myself but we have been camping out together for ages now without doing anything without my mum knowing. we plan to do the same this weekend but how do i tell my mum what we want to do. Her mum wants us to do more but my mum wants us to do less... HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all i will talk to my girlfreind n we will see how to kee things under wrap.
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (4 July 2007):
 The fact that your moms are even involved in this shows you are far too young to have sex...... guys that are old enough to have sex (and age, so long as you're over consent, is really irrelevant) do not discuss with their moms!
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reader, norah  +, writes (4 July 2007):
hi i think that your mother is right she is scared about you . you dont know each other alot you have been only for 6 months ,you must take step by step and i also think that her mother dont loves her and sorry for my opinion i think she is a pimp and bitch
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reader, burningbridges  +, writes (4 July 2007):
Why do your mothers get input on if you have sex or not? I mean do you tell your respective mothers 'Yup, we've tried french kissing, now we're going to try rubbing together through clothes!'
Tell her mum to mind her own business, as that's just creepy. And tell your mother everything will be fine (without saying if you will or not). Then be responsible.
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reader, yellowdaffodil  +, writes (4 July 2007):
If you want to have sex right now at this age, you as the male should run, not walk, to the store and buy condoms. Your girlfriend should run, not walk, to the doctor and discuss and walk out with a form of contraception.
What are you risking? Pregnancy which is results in abortion or raising a baby. Warts which may never go away. The virus that causes the warts can also be tranmitted from the penis into the throat (during oral sex) which is linked to throat cancer. Herpes which is incurable. Gonorrhea, now is resistent to some medications. Gonnorrhea can spread to from your penis into other joints and organs in your body and that requires intravenous antibiotics. And the list goes on. I hope this puts things in perspective. Be responsible as some of the consequences are permanent.
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