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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ill make this quick.I met this guy, I liked him right away. He would always call me, and ALWAYS want me to go see him.When we hooked up, it got out pretty fast. People started talking and they told him that I was lying about my age. He got mad and told me, "I disrespected him" ( But I never lied ) Anyways, I am really fourteen years old, and he's seventeen. Yesterday, I seen him and we worked it out. I told him I wasn't lying about my age, and he said it was all good. But, I still like him alot, and he thinks I am to young for him. But.. think of it like this, when he's 23, I'll be 20! Not that bad.. Is it?I want to be with him so bad, and Don't tell me to move on, I'm asking for your advice on how to WIN HIM OVER.Thank you!
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reader, Nessie Jay  +, writes (15 July 2008):
Hi, Here's my thoughts on your situation. They are only my personal thoughts and nothing more so think what you like of them but I do hope they help.
As you get older, and have experienced more things in life, age difference doesnt become such a big issue. Your at the same stage in your life, you know what your goals are and what you want out of life. Your right an age gap of being 20 and 23 truly is not much at all.
However at your age it is a big difference. I am almost certain he would be wanting somthing different then yourself out of a relationship. Sexual or otherwise.
I am not convincing you to 'move on' but maybe if you still like him in a few years time things might be different.
In the mean time, meet new people. Enjoy being young and Experience life!
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