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writes:So my boyfriend and I recently had sex and he ate me out while I was having a herpes outbreak that I didn't even know about. But anyway I got my herpes from him and he doesn't know yet because im scared to tell him he gave me herpes type 2 .He doesn't show any symptoms and I was wondering Now since he ate Me Out will he show any symptoms or no? Please Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): You should have kicked this guy to the curb as soon as you got herpes. He knows full well you got it from him. He just doesn't want the inconvenience of being held accountable for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes i'm sure it was him because he took my virginity and i tried to adress it but everytime i do he gets mad and say why do you keep talking about this and if you did have it ; it's not from me so i've been waiting for the right time to tell him. which will be this saturday
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (19 May 2011):
 It's an STD he has a right to know. And.. are you 100% sure you got it from him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): Sexual activity with someone who has herpes is not listed as a common trigger for outbreak in someone who already has herpes themselves. A latent outbreak is usually associated with fatigue, stress, trauma (physical or psychological, genital irritation and menstruation.How do you know you were infected by your boyfriend? And if you're positive it was him, why in the world would you not have told him? I can only imagine your reason is fear of angering him or making him feel badly. If so, he ought to be more worried about how YOU feel knowing he was the one to give it to you. This is a very shoddy way to treat yourself.
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (19 May 2011):
If you can't communicate with your boyfriend about such important matters then you are not mature enough to be having sex.You need to sit down and have a grown up conversation about all of this. If he has herpes, then he should be the one taking precautions so that he doesn't infect you. So why you're scared to tell him you've now caught it -- I don't understand? Talk to your boyfriend.. there is no other advice to give.
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