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Opinions on female orgasms please.

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Question - (10 August 2007) 19 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2010)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, Ive been reading and thinking a lot about female cum, and I am now slightly confused. Yes girls orgasim, but this does not always involve ejaculation. It seems to me, from what I have herd that there are two differnt types of female ejaculation. Some people talk squirting, like in porn videos, where a huge distcharge of clear fluid takes place. But others talk about a creamy substance similar to male cum apearing in the vagina during an orgasim but it is my understanding that it does not always happen. My first question is, is this cum that apears in the vagina during an orgasim an indicator of a more pleasurable orgasim. My second question is, is squirting just a more intence form of of this female cum or is it unrelated to to the orgasim that causes female cum. Or am I just totaly wrong about everything I just said?

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A male reader, HadToAsk United States +, writes (25 April 2010):

I was also beginning to think that squirting wasn't real also, I kept hearing about it and reading about people and their experiences. All of this just fueled my desire to get my wife to have an orgasm with female ejaculation. She was more skeptical about it than I was. She would get frustrated with me for continually trying. None of her friends had heard of it either. Well finaly one night , after lots of foreplay and then on her second orgasm it happened. Not a lot but definately female ejaculation. Since then it has happened several times with a lot more liquid. She does like the ejaculation sensation but says that the orgasms are not earth shaking like other women post, so we may still have more to learn. I might try removing my fingers right before the orgasm like they do in the movies to see if that helps. Oh and by the way to the female ready above "anonymous" it did take about a year of trying at least once a month to have it happen, so rest assured it is real or atleast for us.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

Okay, so this is how it works. Most women will cum whilst having sex and it will usually be the creamy substance. Just because a girl has cum, howeer, it does not mean that they have had an orgasm. You must remember that! If you want a girl to have a squirting orgasm, what you do needs to be intence, fast and rigerus. There are videos available online that can teach you how to give squirting orgasms. Whether they are better or not, it depends on the girl. Hope that cleared things up x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

I Can squirt and produce the white milky cum. And when I squirt it is literally like a water gun and it can range from a cup to half a gallon. A female can have two orgasms. A vaginal or clitoral. I squirt when I have a vaginal orgasm. They both feel good but clitoral feels amazing.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008):

Female ejaculation with orgasm is very real.. Read..

http://boards.webmd.com/webx?THDX@@.89a286fa!thdchild=.89a286fa

and this

http://www.talkblogging.com/blog-plug-talk/122663-female-ejaculation-myth-marvel.html

I started having them when I was around 35.. and that was over 15 years ago.. and am able to continue having many, many orgasms.. one right after the other. The talkblogging gets quite into detail about these.. but you can pull up a lot of info by googling 'excessive fluid release with female orgasm'.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008):

I have both. They are both intense. I like both. If I had to choose one or the other I would not be happy. The creamy orgasm is harder to achieve, but I do like it slightly better. It requires less effort on my part. I can relax and just feel. While the creamy form seems to be triggered in the first two to three inches of my vagina, the clear form seems linked to deep penetration. This leads me to believe clitoral stimulation is involved. This is only my experience and analysis. I do know the female reproductive organs rock and much time should be spent finding all the mysterious joys it posseses. Of course, that means long term committed relaionships. Trust is the key that unlocks the big female OOOOO.

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A male reader, PK_McCARNEY United States +, writes (11 April 2008):

Yes, I was given that gift once. It was in the year 19 and 79, I’m dating myself.

I truly love giving women facial pleasure. I’ve been searching for someone with that gift ever since.

It will probably not happen since I have turned into a recluse.

Guess what I’m saying is if you’re blessed with this ability, close your eyes and grin.

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A female reader, thewifey United States +, writes (12 February 2008):

thewifey agony auntI am capable og Squirting ( if you will). It takes Vigorous finger and toungue actions. But the sensation to Laugh and pee comes over me followed by a moan and my legs shake, Toes curl and SWEET release. The creamy substance on the other hand, I haven't had. My ex and I stumbled across this one day.. I damn near Drowned the man... and then after realizing what happened and reading on it... I became proud of my ablitly. I coached my husband now of 3 years.. to "Don't Stop, Get it, Get it" as we call it. HA HA.. and I squirt Everytime. So yes. It does exsist.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008):

Well, I can confirm that "squirting" is in fact a real event. lol. I was having sex with my ex (another lol) and for the first time ever squirted all over the floor. It was so exciting for me because I am 31 and still discovering new things about my sexuality. It turned my dude on so much and I was in so much shock I just want to keep on doing it to make sure its real. I've yet to experience it with anyone else which makes it harder for me to keep him as my ex. lol:)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008):

My girl and i just learned 6 months ago by accident then i researched and to learn the women body is a great thing i can make her squirt a little or i can make her stream cup after cup its the greatest thing i have ever mastered. please research on total body orgasm. the faster my finger go the more she squirt. I really enjoy swollowing it it taste so sweet and good.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008):

I've been with a new woman now twice. First time, she squirted. It totally caught me by surprise. I never saw or heard of this before. I thought it was pee. Second time we were together, I went down on her while she was on the kitchen counter. She squirted about 1/2 cup of fluid and it flew out about 6 inches from her vagina. It went right on the floor and looked like someone spilled water. She experienced a few more squirts that night. Altogether 6 to 7 climaxes. I was quite surprised. BTW - I'd rate my performance fairly low that night. Had a head cold. Later, I found out that medicine which drys sinuses effectively acts as a vasoconstrictor - basically the opposite of viagra. Combine that with too much wine, and it's not a good combination for a man in his late 40s trying hard to impress a new beautiful woman - 1st new one in many many years.

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A male reader, jno United States +, writes (23 December 2007):

It is real, it does happen, but it is rare. In my experience I have had women who have done it and had success repeating it with some women, but others seem physically unable to do it. Believe me it is not from lack of effort or skill. Some just can't. Others do it very easily. I'm not talking about excessive wetness, I am talking about a genuine fountain-if you will-that resembles a urine stream but is definitely not urine. This female ejaculation is always accompanied with a extremely intense orgasm-much harder than is usual for the woman.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

It's for real. My fiance can both squirt and have creamy ejaculate from inside the vagina. To squirt, she really has to concentrate and the fluid comes out of the urethra, but it's not pee. It is clear and odorless. Her orgasms are incredible to her this way and she squirted in my mouth last week while I was licking her with her sitting on my face. It was a little surprising, but a huge turn on. Today, she had a creamy white ejaculate from orgasming with me inside of her. There was a lot of it and it was literally dripping off of my penis.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007):

I proud to be a squirter! My husband and I found this out several months ago. I wasnt sure what had happened until my husband told me that he had "found the well" as he put it! I am glad to see that I am not alone. There is a huge difference between a regular orgasim and when I squirt. My husband was very turned on by this. Both orgasims are great but for my husband he loves when I squirt more.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007):

OK, they are real. I've done it a couple of times - not often, and (I’m in my 40s). First time, startled me to death...what I can tell you is it only happens when I'm completely relaxed and not 'thinking'. I have experienced several different degrees of ‘wet’ orgasms and even rather 'dry' ones are pleasurable, so don't let it fool you. Wet or dry, a woman can experience an orgasm.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

It is possible that woman can squirt. I am a squirter. Most woman can not or do not know what squirting is, but that doesn't mean they can't experience the same sexual orgasm as others. Squirting is another way for a woman to "release" their climax. I know many woman who have had reached their climax and never squirted. It is true many porn videos do put something in the womans' vagina to "squirt" more, BUT that doesn't mean squirting does not exist. The liquid that comes out is NOT urine. Many woman mistake the "squirting sensation" as having the need to go to the bathroom, there is a difference. During sex, I can tell the difference between "needing to go to bathroom" and the sensation of "squirting.

Listen to your body, it knows better than any post here. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

Squirting IS real. Sorry to disappoint those who doubt. I had a GF once who while I was going down on her 'squirted' in my face. And not it was NOT urine - it was clear and odorless. She did this a few more times after that. So yes, squirting is something that very few women know how to do.

The creamy white cum is also variable from woman to woman. Not many women secrete this substance either as it's just as uncommon as squirting.

Not sure if squiring is a more intense orgasm than a regular orgasm. My GF didn't scream or moan or writhe with any increased frequency than with just orgasm without squiring. Pretty, when she came, it was all the same. Sometimes she squirted, sometimes she didn't.

And apparently there are websites, books, and articles that teach women how to squirt so...not sure if they work but worth a shot, right?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007):

some girls do squirt when they come this is true but not all girls do the creamy substance is proberbly due to the girls own lubricaton i have talked to a couple of frineds of mine about this question and only 1 out of 10 actually did squirt when coming so its not all girls that do she said it came with a lot of practice lol

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (10 August 2007):

Basschick agony auntI agree with anon. There is no real squirting involved. Usually when a woman has an orgasm she will become increasingly more wet. This would be the fluid you have been told about but it varies from woman to woman and has no bearing on the actual feel of the orgasm itself. It usually follows anyhow. You may become slightly wet upon arousal, but it does increase after the orgasm usually. I hope this helps you out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007):

Squirting isn't even real. Porn videos put something in a woman's vagina & the woman squirts it out. It's not even real. I have never had "ejaculate" and none of the females I know have either. It could just be the wetness coming out from the womans natural lubrication.

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