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writes: Hello I have been friends with some girls for ages, but all of a sudden just because one of them apparantly is jealous of me she has turned all the girls against me. They say mean stuff and look at me like im stupid whenever i talk to them. They say stuff to other people as well and turn them agaisnt me which is really getting me down. Ive tryed being friends with them, talking to them, ive even tryed being horrible back but they always win in the end and it drives me mad the was there still the most popular people in our year. They don't deserve it and i have really run out of ideas, any advice would be great x x x :)
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reader, supermum  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 these people are obviously not worth being friends with, so i wouldnt bother with them... give them something to be really jealous of, make some new friends who appreciate you for who you are, smile whenever they walk by and ignore there comments. i know this is easier said then done, but i have been through it and it IS possible
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Hello, hola_bonjour, Your friends seem to be going through an adolescent phase that is very common, especially with young girls. They are playing the "in girl and out girl" game. It really has nothing to do with you, except that one of them may be jealous for some reason and has persuaded the others that you should be the "out girl". Next month, it will be another girl in the "group". And the others will start being friendly toward you again. My advice is to smile and say, "We were friends as children, but you haven't grown up yet. Let me know when you do..
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