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writes: I met my partner 5 years ago. He had recently ended his marriage and was very honest about the fact that he had an affair with a woman for 4 years during his marriage. He ended it and said that she took it badly, but he didnt love her. 3 months ago I discovered a text message from this wom an on his phone. It is a new phone and the only way she could have this number is if he gave it to her, but he denies it! He said he replied to texts she started sending but told her he was happy with me. She said she has been talking to him for months, but they both deny a sexual relationship. I am devastated. He says he doesnt love her, he loves me and will end all contact but I just dont know what to believe. Should I end it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): I would never have said "once a cheater always a cheater" but my ex once said "I promise on my mums life I will never do that again - i've changed" (I did think that was quite an odd thing to say to someone) but then, a few weeks later, she did the very same thing again!
Go with your gut instinct - there are plenty of people who would never put you in this kind of situation, you deserve better. If you feel he is acting suspicious, then he probably is.
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reader, jaybird +, writes (26 July 2006):
The only way you will know is to find the evidence yourself. Go to www.flexispy.com and download the software on to his phone. It will cost you £27 and you will be able to read every text msg he sends or recieves from you pc. It will tell you on the website if the phone is compatable. Please try it cos it really does work and then you will be sure.
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