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Older woman will not think of me as a sex partner

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Question - (4 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2009)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a friend who is an older woman. I would like sex with her. However she does not think of me as a potential sex partner. How can I change that?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009):

Do you flirt with her? Comment on how nice she looks or say something complimentary to her? Most women love to be complimented, but make it sound sincere. Girls/women know when you are not. You might want to surprise her with a flower on Valentines Day. That would be very sweet thing to do, any girl would be delighted. Another way to get close to her is by asking her questions and by asking her to help you in something that she may very good at. Like the previous posters mentioned, you don’t want to pressure her too much, you will know soon enough whether she’s interested in you and wants to be with you. Keep in mind that if she’s in a relationship or married, even though she may be very attracted to you, she might not want to jeopardize her relationship. Good luck, I hope it goes well for you. If things don’t work out, thank heavens for “fantasies”!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntwell talk to her and slip it in conversation. you cant change her mind if she doesnt want you as a sex partner but at least if you talk to her, you'll find out the reason behind her not wanting you like you want her. keep me updated.x

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