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writes:when i first started sexual relations with my boyfreind he would go down on me all the time and want to satisfy me. As he could not get hard due to stress. He can now have normal sex and thats all we have when we have sex and I go down on him. I havnt said anything because I thought he would start doing it again but he hasnt.he says he is a male chavinist whatever that means. he treats me well occasionaly putting me down verbaly when i loose something or struggle making decisions I have started to question the relationship can I hear what your thoughts are on this. Reply to this Question
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (22 November 2012):
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Your right to question the relationship.He sounds like a caveman.
Communicate with him, tell him you want to be satisfied sexually too, that you liked how he was with you before,that you want foreplay as well as intercourse
Then see if anything changes, if it doesn't then you will have to weigh up the whole relationship and see if its enough to stay around for.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (22 November 2012):
 "he says he is a male chavinist whatever that means. he treats me well occasionaly putting me down verbaly when i loose something or struggle making decisions"
He self-identifies as a sexist and you want to stay with him? Why on Earth would you stay with someone who refuses to go down on you citing that men are superior to women?
"whatever that means"
Definition: "A man whose behavior and attitude toward women indicate a belief that they are innately inferior to men."
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