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Now she's willing to chill, but before sought a rain check when I asked. Why would she be more willing now?

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Question - (12 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *or-El85 writes:

Hi, Jor-El here after 3 months of being away.

Before I asked about my Bio-Lab possibly liking me. Last semester we got closer, which is good, but when I wanted to hang out with her, she'd use the words "rain check" a lot, but this semester when I ask to chill with her, it's "Sure, what time?"

Or when I come to her room just to talk a bit, it's

"Do you wanna come in a minute?" which usaually turns into a few hours together(nothing sexaul).

She's a real good girl. She's kind and caring. We were playing around one time, I cut myself and she went into nurse mode.

I should be happy...I know, but I'm wondering why now she's so open(eager)to be with me.

How should I approach this or am I overthinking this whole thing?

Any thoughts or advice will be very apperciated.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (13 February 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntIm guessing at the start she wasnt really in to you, maybe she had other things going on in her life, or maybe the more she thought on it the more she began to like you. Take this as a good thing and see where it goes. It sounds like she is interested now so good for you. I hope things will work out for you. Dont say anything to her just keep hanging around with her and see how it goes. Goodluck Hun.

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