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writes: Hi,I have been living with my cousin's family for 3 years. She is older than me. I've been having sex with her for past 2 years. Although I kind of like her but don't know, it feels sick after every time we have sex.I know I want to get out of this. that's for sure. But don't know how to end it. What should I do? Whether I should move out of that house or there is any other way?
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reader, gman1959 +, writes (18 September 2006):
Hi Talk with her and explain how you feel maybe you'll find she feels the same.
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reader, Drlove +, writes (7 July 2005):
Hello,first thing I would do if I were in your shoes is sit and talk with your cousin,calmly and rationally. Assuming that this was consensual I would say don't place blame or anything like that. Just say that it feels wrong and you don't think it should continue. You like her as a person and a cousin but this can't go on. I think it's very important to talk calmly and have conversation rather than just moving out or something. All humans have feelings and deserve to be treated as such. Like someone else said if tension get high or something you may need to find another place to live, but at least you can feel good about yourself for knowing you did what you felt to be right and going about it in a responsable adult manner.Best of Luck!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
tell her that you dont feel comfortable having sex with her. tell her it feels wrong and that you want to stop. You may have to leave the house if the atmosphere becomes uncomfortable.
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
If you feel sick then why are you doing it? If she is forcing you, you need to seek out some help. you do not say how old you are but no-one should be forced into sex.
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