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Not cheating, but accused of it...

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Question - (2 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2009)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

I know I'm not perfect, and don't pretend to be. My girlfriend of several years is convinced I have been cheating on her, when in fact, I have not. What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009):

She may be overly jealous and mistrusting and be lacking mentally in that department. She may always be accusing you even if logically you could never cheat. I know someone just like this and no matter what evidence you bring up this person will hear none of it because their mind has been made up.

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (2 August 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntReassure her that you are not cheating, and then watch her to make sure she's not projecting her own guilt onto you.

Good luck.

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A male reader, LoveDocBruce United States +, writes (2 August 2009):

LoveDocBruce agony auntHey there,

I think you should ask her who she thinks you have cheated on her with.......then call that person (if you can) on the spot, and ask if you have had sex with that person since you have been with your girlfriend. It may be awkward but it is a blunt way to handle the situation.

Let me know how it goes.

-LoveDocBruce

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009):

Im afraid there is not much you can do only reassure her

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