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*achakaRoni
writes:Me and this guy have been together in a manner of speaking for a year. We slept with each other to start with and then became friends with benefits. Now Im confused and I think he is too because in the last 2 weeks. I have seen him a fair few times and none of those times have we had sex. What does this mean? We feel more than sex for eachother or something else? We have a lovely time together but just have no sex.
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reader, Aunty Lin  +, writes (19 February 2007):
If you're confused about exactly waht is goin on, the simplest thing to do is ask him. If you don't wanna do it right out head to head type thing you can make it a jokey question but still talk about it with him.
All of us here at dear cupid can only help you so far but the best thing is to discuss the issue with the other person involved. As AskEve has already said it might all mean that he wants to know you better, he wants to move your relationship one step up or it might even mean that he is goin off the whole thing...we can only suggest posibilities the task of findin out the reality is in your hands=)
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reader, AskEve +, writes (18 February 2007):
 "Friends with benefits" usually means a sexual relationship with another person with no strings attached. You are friends, sleep together but there is no commitment. If you want to have some form of commitment with him then I suggest you cut out sleeping with him.
You say you haven't slept together in a while. Maybe he wants to get to know you better and not just "use" you in this way. Talk together, enjoy one another's company and see what develops.
Eve
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