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We never actually went out, but I still fell for him...

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Question - (5 February 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

There is this guy at school and i've known him for around 5 years now, but for the last three/four months i have been feeling increasingly attracted to him, and for those three/four months we've been flirting... I started calling him Stud, then he started calling me Studette, and he'd let me cuddle him, we'd call each other fiance, stuff like that, and we got on really well, but here's the thing... we were never technically going out, although you wouldn't think so.

Anyway this girl at school quesioned him about our relationship, and that night he asked me why i cared about him so much, and why i was too possessive, and asked if i fancied him (i didn't say no) i gave what answers i could but got upset and had to leave.

At school the next day i went into class as usual and i could see him looking at me, we'd get eye contact once or twice, and he'd still try and get my attention, like he'd throw a snow ball at me and stuff like that. But we haven't actually spoken since that night, does he regret what he said to me?

i went to church to try get some answers and it helped but i still don't know WHAT to do, thats where, i'm hoping, you can come in. With Valentine's day just around the corner (which also happens to be our wedding), i really want to know what he has been doing mean, so i can either get over him because there is nothing there, or try my damdest to win him back. Please help Cupid.

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A female reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (30 December 2005):

I think he was hinting for you to give an answer that would put things on a "definate relationship" footing. Ask him if he thinks you should go out with each other or stay friends. Being a bloke he will probably ask you what you think ..then tell him that you would go out with him if he asked you. Then the ball is in his court and if he likes you then he will ask

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