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*hameela
writes:Hi, I have been married 3 years. It seems tho that e can't get over past mistakes.I love my husband but he tends to keep secrets n when I find out I go ballistic. I can't Handle hurt n the fact that I have never met his son or that he never speaks to himInfront of me since his trip to see the boy. I am a very aggressive person and get upset easily. He seems to bring out the worst in me and I can't control myself. What do u suggest? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Contact your doctor and tell him your situation and maybe he might be able to direct you in the right direction to get help.
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reader, shameela +, writes (20 October 2010):
shameela is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u, I have actually thought about anger management and councelling for myself first
But can't afford it right now. If anyone could assist with a name of places in jo'burg for me to
Approach that is affordable or free I would gladly go for my sake, my husbands n my kids.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (19 October 2010):
If you are beginning to get aggressive and you cant control it then you need to go to anger management classes to keep it under control you also would benefit from going to marriage councelling with your husband as if he is lying to you and frustrationg you then you both have problems and he needs to work just as hard as you.
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