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Need advice on relationships... Looks or Personality? Please help..

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Question - (23 April 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have a problem, you see at school I like this boy (T) and I try to get him to notice me but no luck, I have had this crush on him for about 8 months. I dont think that he likes me, but part of me thinks he does. The problem in all this is there is another boy who almost definatley likes me, but I dont know, should I keep trying on (T) or give (R) a chance. I dont want to mess this up-I can talk more to (R) than I can (T)- should I go with someone with good looks or someone with a good personality-please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2006):

Oh, i have the same problem, but the other way round! So, if i were you, i'd definatly go for the guy with personality, they're much harder to come by... trust me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2006):

Well before i answer your question i would like you to ask yourself a few questions about (T)........is this (T) guy one of the cool, hot, popular, all the girls want to be with him type of guys?

(YES)then do you like him for him or his looks an popularity?

(NO)then if hes hot and nice to you ask him how he feels about you.

..Does (T) talk to you without you starting the covo first?

(YES)then he sounds to be alright and interested

(NO)he could be just shy, or if your answer to the 1st question was a yes then i don't think he's really worth the effort.

This (R) guy seems to be really interested and by the sound of what your saying about him i think you have more feelings for him, personally i would pick personality over looks any-day.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2006):

Well, good looks gets old pretty quickly. Someone with a great personality who's good to talk to and is interesting surely sounds like the better relationship to me.

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