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writes: When we first started dating, my wife hid a secret from me.....she didn’t know how to tell me that she can’t feel me and she was used to her ex-boyfriend's big cock and a guy who fucked her to the point that there is no comparison. She’s very loud with the 8 inch dildo we use, but doesn’t make a peep with my lil’ “baby cock,” as we named it. Ihen she can’t feel me, she makes me stop, and wear the strap on she gets off on telling me how tiny it is, how good the big, thick strap on dildo is, how her ex-boyfriend fucked her hard, and we fantasize, about bringing a Bull into the mix.Does anyone out there feel that once a girl has fucked a big cock and gotten off really good that being with a tiny small cock will never fill her up and satisfy her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2022): Typo correction:
"It's more of an effective [means] to crush a man, when you don't really like him; and can't figure out any other way to get rid of him, but to make him feel inadequate."
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If she has suggested bringing another man into the mix; she's opting for an open-marriage; while maintaining the benefit of your income, spousal-rights, and enjoying the financial-security marriage provides. She gets half of everything in a divorce. Meanwhile, a "Bull" comes along who strikes her fancy; and she will either cheat on you, or already has a prospect in mind if you decide to go the cuckolding route. Maybe you've married a woman who never loved you, but is using you for other reasons. I can't see why your penis is such an issue; when she had the choice not to marry you, if she ever thought it was.
My advice? Talk to a lawyer, and see how you can avoid being taken to the cleaners; should there be a divorce down the road. You should also see a therapist about your sexual-inadequacy issues. You can't make your penis any larger, and you've got it for life. Acting like your penis-size is a serious physical-disability warrants professional counseling. You're making it way too easy for her to hurt your feelings. Nothing in your post indicates you're in a loving marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2022): Didn't she have some idea of what you had before she married you?
It is possible that your wife needs an excuse for a divorce; and is using cruelty and emasculation as a means of pushing you to give her a divorce. Making fun of your size isn't how you show love and affection. It's more of an effective to crush a man, when you don't really like him; and can't figure out any other way to get rid of him, but to make him feel inadequate. Sometimes it's a way to break your spirit; to make you more pliable and submissive, in order to control and manipulate you.
You have a very mean wife. Either continue to do what you both do in the bedroom; or seek some professional marriage-counseling. She doesn't seem compatible to your personality; because you're so insecure, and too obsessed about her ex-boyfriend's penis.
Doesn't seem your marriage has much love or affection in it; and it's not the size of your penis that is at fault.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (4 November 2022):
 Firstly i think she is wrong to ridicule you like she is, she is belittling you and not helping your feelings of inadequacy. I would not mind betting that most woman apart from your partner that is would tell you that its not the size, but what you do with it is what matters.
Secondly if you bring in a third party into the mix then i don't envisage things going well at all. Look over previous posts about threesomes. What if she starts developing feelings for the third party and starts an affair.
Anyways, i think the way she treats you and talks to you is not on. I think you need to be with someone who respects you, not belittles you.
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