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writes:My wife she is very rude with me, and my mother. She didn't want to stay with my mom but didn't leave her also becasue she is my responsibiliy. She didn't give respect to my mom and Dad and this reason i didn't like my wife's attitude. Last few days before she came with her parents and make big drama and heart my parents. So now this stage mentally disturb me and my parents .So this situation what i will be do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): She is your wife.you have to take her with you along with your mom and dad.try to be silent when she speaks anything about your parents in front of you.and also do not say negative about her in front of your parents too.and also live with your wife like that she always would feel that she is most important in her husband's life.and have patience.you 'll find the positive results.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): Your question doesn't give much information so it's very hard to give you targeted advice here! How exactly is your wife rude? How is she disrespecting your parents? Unless you give us more information it's very hard to help you.
One thing I would say: respect is a two-way street. In laws on BOTH sides of the generational gap have an automatic right to it, and that means knowing when to shut up and be polite. It is NOT OK for either side to give advice about how to live, to dress, to do a job, to run a house, or to raise a family - and that applies every bit to the older party as well as the younger one.
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