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writes:I still have a crush on my old chemistry teacher.At results day we were really close and we nearly kissed, his face was millimetres away from mine.Now I have left and attend a different sixth form I cant stop thinking about him and the message he left in writing was 'I'll Miss You'.Does he miss me or my grades or both?He gave me a heart and said 'this is where it belongs' is it symbolic in the fact his heart belongs to me and the hole in it is me where I have left him or am I reading into this too much?Thank You for reading and I hope some of you will be able to answer my questions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2011): Hi honey, it does not seem a good idea, crushes are difficult but they do pass. Try and remember that he is the mature but weak willed adult entrusted to your care and that you do not want to screw your life up, you are too young yet to quite realise who the best long term partner or husband will be. Try and stay away and know that the right person will come along, it's a bit creepy frankly that a teacher is going over the boundaries. I'm 33 and I remember what it is like to be 16, 20 something and now at 30 I know that a man that is anywhere between 25 and over should know much much better, something is wrong with his thinking.
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reader, i'minlove  +, writes (29 September 2011):
 I think he's much too old for you and as much as it hurts you should move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2011): Given your description, it would be just as likely as it is unlikely.However, either way, it's playing fire. You may be past the age of consent for the U.K. but it's still kinda tacky, if not downright illegal, for you to be doing as you have been doing with any person who has authority over you. Teachers, tutors, bosses... all of it can get a person fired and sometimes even jailed.I say this not to minimise your feelings, but to try and get you to see reason.And whilst you no longer attend his classes, he can still be fired and stigmatised, he will always be known as the teacher who stepped over the line with a student, even if it is entirely an innocent relationship... rumours have a way of getting out of hand as people do love to gossip.Look, at the very least you should wait until you attend a different school or are graduated from school entirely before even entertaining the idea of ANY form of relationship outside of student and teacher.I know it probably isn't what you WANT to hear, but it's definitely what you NEED to. There are plenty of guys your own age and even older guys if you really must that you can fool around with now that have no authority over you that can't get in trouble just by looking at you... try your luck with these for now.Flynn 24
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