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Alone again on the New Year...how do I get through this??

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Question - (30 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 31 December 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ail.. writes:

I've been sngle for the last 3 years around new years and all that and the last couple of years i completly had melt downs cause i was so sick of being alone. all my friends are going out of town and i will be alone yet again. i was wondering how i can get thru this without having another pity party cause i'm alone again?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010):

If it's ok to ask, how come you arent going out round town with your friends ?. Or do you have any family members that you can go out with or just go and visit at their home ?.

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A female reader, Tbosse South Africa +, writes (31 December 2010):

Tbosse agony auntI'll be in my house alone.iv organised some booze,wil order pizza and il do with my favourite dvd. Its safer indoors than out with the bunch of 'friends'

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010):

Same here! I've been going through the same situation as you for the past 3 years becuase most of my friends go out of town etc. and I can't do that (financially speaking).

What works? Family + Booze. If you have siblings, having a couple of drinks with them and watching the New Years celebration junk on TV/listening to muisc/eating take-in is always fun. Best part about it? You never have to worry about someone getting wasted - they pass out in your house!

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (31 December 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntHere's a thought. Why don't you just put on your best outfit hit the town and meet new people? If there's any time to do it, its on new years. Hell, you may even get a kiss come midnight. Do something about this, because staying at home is inevitably going to become a pity party.

How to get though a pity party? I find DVD's, pizza and booze works well, but frankly going out of your comfort zone and meeting new people is a lot more fun... and healthier.

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