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writes:Its been 11yrs and I want to end my relationship with ny son's father. We are not married. I haved asked him repeatly asked him to leave and he is still here. I really don't want for this to get ugly because of our son. Our son sees, hears us argue all the time. Its not a healthy environment to be yelling at each other all the time. I stress that to him all the time. Its affecting our son and I don't want him to grow up thinking its ok to treat and talk to women with disrespect his father shows towards me. My sons father says he is not leaving until he is ready. So I have put in the works to move when the school year is finished in june. How can I get him out of the house before then? Any suGgestions? P.s. He doesn't even pull his share of the weight , so I kow I'll do fine without him. Just have to get him OUT!! Very stressful , we have not had sex in a year!!! Its been over but he still hanging around. ILK Reply to this Question
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Do you own your home or is it in his name too? Or is the rent lease in just your name? If so you have the legal right to call the police and have him removed. Even if you don't they may be willing to help you get him out. It doesn't hurt to ask. Maybe a male friend or family member could help you persuad him to leave.
Maybe you could have the locks changed one day when he is out. And put his stuff outside. You need to know what the laws are in your area though so you don't get into trouble.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 have you got a mortgage or are you renting? if you are renting just move out yourself? or if he doesn't pay the rent call the police to remove him.
its up to you, but simply asking him to leave is not going to work as it hasn't up until now, and if he knows he can mooch off you and talk to you like crap thats a win win situation for an angry selfish male.
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