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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of two and a half years and I had a rather messy breakup just over a month ago. My sister knows I do NOT want to speak to or see him if I can avoid it and that I want nothing to do with him anymore, but she chose to be his locker partner this year at university instead of mine even though I asked her to share a locker with me first. She's being really nice to him, hanging out and talking like nothing is different - it really angers me. I strongly feel that does he not deserve her friendship (his actions were the reason for the breakup) since friends usually choose sides based on who they are closer to when two people break up. I've tried telling her how I feel and she claims that she's being his friend because she needs him to help her in one of her classes, even though free tutoring is offered through the university. (I'm 99% positive that there is nothing going on romantically between them since my ex starting dating a different girl just 2 weeks after our breakup.) My question is what could she possibly be doing this for and how do I handle such a devestating situation? Thanks for any advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2011): You need to talk to her. I'm not sure how your relationship is but imo this is the ultimate betrayal. A sibling should never choose to side with your bf/gf over you! If she does develop a romantic relationship with him this will damage her relationship with you for life. I don't know how you can handle it, I'm sorry, just take care of yourself and try to get help from your friends and other family members.
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