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*aura555
writes:I had a great relationship with my hubby, had great sex all the time talk hug, kiss, watch movies, when out. I got pregnant had a baby and everything change we live together he says he loves me but he avoids talking to me, we don't go out, the sex is once every two weeks, I feel our relationship is ending is it because my body change and now I feel insecure and fat ? Can I do something to fix this I love him and now that I had he son I will like to make it work.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 I don't think it's you. I think it's the baby. The change is big for him, he's now a father. Now there is a baby in the house that takes up a lot of energy, maybe the baby cries often too? Maybe he doesn't have the energy for sex? Maybe he is feeling overwhelmed?
Do not think it is you, most likely it's the change that is the problem, and not you. He, and you need time to adjust to your new life. Give it some time. I am sure things will go back to normal after you have gotten into a new routine and gotten used to your new life style.
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