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My relationship of 10 years turned into a LDR but there is this other girl now, are we moving too fast?

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Question - (21 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2011)
A male Nigeria age 36-40, *jkas writes:

This is more complicated than it sounds.i have a gf of 10yrs,though we lost contact for 5yrs,we got in touch last year and since then its been a LDR.maybe insecurity and lovelorn is my problem,but am just not feeling it as i havent seen her in over 6years.i hope to break it off with her but just cant.i decided to use online dating to forget about her.i found one and though all we have seen of each are other are just pictures,she claims to be so into me,saying she loves though i pretend not to hear.and now whenever i think of her,i get erection.is she moving too fast? Why the erections? And how do i go about my lover? Please i need answers.

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A male reader, Mjkas Nigeria +, writes (22 June 2011):

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Mjkas agony auntThanks a million you all.first i think the online stuff is really a hoax,i just need to break up both engagements,starting with my LDR lover,and as for the online blah blah,as no commitments as yet i will block her out.

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A male reader, King of Boxing Albania +, writes (21 June 2011):

I dn't get it man how can u be with someone if u haven't contacted each other in 5 years, u don't owe her anythin man, seriously man 5 years, as for these online girls watch out it cld be a hoax, and if its real man do what u want to do, just have fun with, just check that she doesn't have any STD's, I mean lets be serious man a girl tellin u how into online can't be the most serious a relationship

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011):

Put an end to both of these entanglements. LDR are far too demanding cmpared to the rewards they yield. If you cannot be together in person then why make a commitment?

The second woman is unstable and I'd put as much distance between myself and her as possible - as soon as possible. You're going to have to block and delete her otherwise she'll never leave you alone.

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