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writes: i was reading one of the questions on here about if you should forgive someone for cheating on you, or if you shouldn't. and a lot of the responses said that it depends on the person and if they seem truly sorry for what they did. and it made me think about my situation. i hooked up with this girl who had a boyfriend. but it wasn't just sex. there were emotions invested in it, too. we were together for the whole weekend, and pretty much behaved like a couple. we cuddled, even held hands a little bit. and she even told me she wanted to be with me. and the kicker is, she's the one who initiated everything. but then she went back to her boyfriend and confessed what had happened over the weekend. but she didn't give him the full story - not even close. she just told him that it was just sex, and that i pretty much started it all. i guess she was just trying to make it seem like she was innocent so that she could get him back - which i don't necessarily blame her. and i'm not angry about. because if she told him everything, he'd probably never want to speak to her again. but anyway, since then, we've still been kind of flirtatious with each other and even laugh about our hookup, jokingly blaming each other. it just doesn't seem like this girl genuinely was sorry for what happened. because if she was, wouldn't she have stopped flirting with me, or wouldn't she not want to talk about our hookup? what do you think about all of this? and what do you think about our weekend together?
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (6 August 2006):
 She sounds pretty deceitful. She's lied to her boyfriend in a big way. She's trying to suggest that you were responsible for your hookup, and when she should really be abjectly sorry for cheating on her boyfriend, she continues to flirt with you.
This girl doesn't have much empathy for anyone else, and she sounds like she thinks she the centre of the universe.
My recommendation to you is not to mess around with her any more. Not only does she have a boyfriend (duh), but she's proved that she doesn't much care about loyalty. If you were with her, what's to keep her from cheating on you and lying about it afterwards.
She's baaaad medicine.
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reader, Juliette  +, writes (5 August 2006):
 In my opinion if there was much about her she would have told the truth. It is disrespectful to you for her to expect you to sit back and laugh about it when she knows that you know how deceitful she has been. You deserve better!
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