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writes:So i know i have asked this question but i still feel like i didnt get a good answer. Me and my girlfriend are trying to have sex... we are both virgins so its kind of like going into this blindfolded.We get each other going i get her wet and all and yes i have heard the advice of shes like wet enough but when its oozing on the bed i think its wet enough. So i stick my penis in her vagina and it never seems like the right place.Just seems like its slips out or doesnt stay in. So how should i go about fixing this problem with two people that have no clue what they are doing???
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reader, Faraday  +, writes (11 February 2010):
 Get HER to read this, and you may join in where appropriate…..
Tonight, when you are alone and not likely to be disturbed, I want you to examine your pussy.
Closely.
Prop yourself up in bed, and part your legs but close your heels together.
In other words, like frogs legs.
This opens up your pussy nicely, and your heels give you something to prop a mirror on - although you may need a cushion as well.
Get it so that you can get a clear view of your wide-open pussy, and start to expose your clit. If you haven’t found it yet, your clit (clitoris, in full – your main pleasure centre) is above your vaginal opening, higher than where you pee from. It is covered by a fold of skin, your hood, to protect it and reduce sensitivity.
Take a good look at things so that you can see every detail: how the hood covers it, what you need to expose it, how your lips fold and wrinkle - all that sort of thing.
I bet you haven't had a really good look before?
When you have inspected fully, just try playing with your bits and finding out how to give yourself most pleasure.
Pay particular attention to your clit: the tip is especially sensitive, but it often matters which side you rub, too. Try all options: round and round, up and down and even really exposing it and flicking across the tip with the end of your middle finger – fast and gently usually works best.
Now, open really wide and go in search of your g-spot; a center of pleasure rivalling that of the clit itself.
[An area of controversy here. ALMOST all women achieve intense orgasms via g-spot stimulation, but there are some for whom it does very little. I hope that won't be you.]
Feel along the front wall of your vagina, inside you, for a roughened area of skin about 1-2 inches in.
Everywhere else will be smooth, and if you are at all aroused it should be a little plump, too.
The plumpness is due to the fact that is a spongy tissue similar to a penis, except that is does not engorge with blood but fills with a fluid upon arousal.
Stimulation of the area really fills the sponge with fluid and can result in ejaculation during orgasm, much to your delight!
It is NOT urine, although it does share the same exit duct. It is colourless, not yellow and has been shown not to contain any urine; so don’t worry, you won’t pee yourself!
This next step maybe a little difficult for you to implement yourself, but easy for the b/f when he is with you - but make sure his fingernails are short!
Get him to put a finger or two on your g-spot and apply pressure. Then his thumb on your clit and clamp them together, like pincers.
Retaining this grip, have him pump back and forth with his hand so as to give both clit and g-spot maximum stimulation, and keep going until you reach your goal.....
Have fun!
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reader, deuce +, writes (11 February 2010):
deuce is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay thanks we have honestly tried like a 100 times trying to get it in but since doesnt play with herself she doesnt even know if where im hitting is the right spot
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (11 February 2010):
 Deuce,
OK you have already been told to let her be on top. Here is the next thing you two should do.
Let he get comfortable on he back on the bed. Put your body between her feet and you head between her thighs. Then use your hands and eyes to get to know her. Find things she likes. If you are literally wearing a blind fold throw it away. Put your finger into her. Trim your nails and buff them smooth before you start this. Or use a latex glove.
I'm pretty sure you will be able to figure it out after that.
FA
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010): If she's on her back, she probably needs to roll her pelvis forward. Bring her knees up closer to her chest.
If you're behind her, then get her to roll her pelvis back.
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reader, deuce +, writes (11 February 2010):
deuce is verified as being by the original poster of the question5 - 6 inches
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