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My partner of 17 yrs jumped into another relationship immediately after the separation, which battered my confidence - how can I regain it?

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Question - (9 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My partner of 17years, I have known her for 19years, left me and than jumped striaght into another relationship. I found out three weeks later. Its been year since the spilt but I still think about her, not as much now. She hasnt made no contact with me at all. And she never gave closure. Freinds, Family have said she must have been cheating to jump into another relationship that quick and also be a very weak individual not to make contact with me. Its really battered my confidence in life and I am struggling to get back this bck. Any advice?

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A male reader, q1605 United States +, writes (10 February 2008):

q1605 agony auntThere are a lot of women who don't know what to do with themselves between one man and the next. That is head and shoulders above the rest of any problems I have with the fairer sex. If that's their nature have at it. But as they gear up to transfer loyalty they can spare me the I'm an independent woman no man need apply rhetoric before they go. They lose all credibility and it makes me look and feel like the sucker of the year

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (9 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntThere are things which happened and it is beyond our control. We do not want to stop anyone from having their happiness.If some one is unhappy , we should not obstruct them.

Release them and wish them well.

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