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My partner found me on the street with another man, and now he has broken up with me!

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Question - (31 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2010)
A female South Africa age 36-40, *uke writes:

Hi please can you help me here , I was with the father of my son for 6 years now there was ups and down but we solved them and get back together again, but now He found me on the street with a guy around 9 at night ,he just came and i went to him he was so angry he said i was cheating on him to be honest i wasnt it was just those guys wo dont let the skirt pass ,so he said we must break up hes gonna be there for his child i still love him a lot and hes angry he doesnt wanna speak to me i want him back what must I do???

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A female reader, Muke South Africa +, writes (1 June 2010):

Muke is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I was from work ,and the guy wasnt touching me i was from spar to get something to eat before i sleep then the guy was outside and the father of my son just came i

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010):

was this guy touching you when he saw?

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (31 May 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntHonestly, I get the distinct feeling that's there's more to this story than you're telling here.

"You are what your record says you are" Anyone who will automatically assume that because you're out hanging in the street at 9pm, with an unknown man and assume that it's evidence of cheating is either: A) completely and utterly irrational and so paranoid that you should really want as far away from him as you can possible get OR B) has good reason to suspect your behavior as further evidence that you're repeating past behavior.

So,which is it? Either he's a nut case or you just got busted, again.

If he's the former, why would you worry about salvaging anything? If he's the later, then you were busted and must deal with the consequences or your behavior. It's that simple.

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