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writes:My parents quarrel all the time. They are always disagreeing on matters concerning their marriage. At my mother s uncle s funeral my father didnt show. My mum was so hurt about that because she s always there for my dad. My dad is not a good man to my mum, he always makes my mum pay for his debts(though he s working), he doesnt want to go anywhere with my mum, he doesnt want to pay school fees nor help around the house, he eats and leave dishes right where he ate. .everything is done by mum(which is bad)..but when he s outside, he acts like he s a good man . It s disturbing to live with parents like this, who are always on an open debate. .i mean they just talk in infront of us, shouting then later one slams the door or just walks out. .later he/she comes back and start where he/she left. Im so tired of this, i sometimes wish i could move out of my own home and go somewhere else. I dont even want to see a boy next to me, now or in future because my parents made me believe that true love doesnt exist. Help
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reader, BachelorGreatUncle  +, writes (23 September 2012):
"my parents made me believe that true love doesnt exist."
Don't judge the world by your parents, your father is a bully and they shouldn't be airing dirty laundry in front of you, just shows they are self-absorbed and small-minded, thus incapable of true love. Do not use them as example or role model in any capacity.
Unfortunately at your age all you can do is watch the clock tick as your liberating date of majority arrives. Meantime they are your parents, tough break but many many others have overcome much much worse.
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reader, swordandredrose +, writes (23 September 2012):
I was the same way until I met my roommate's parents. They met in college and they have been married for 30 years, still madly in love with each other. Yes, love does exist, it's just really hard to find.
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