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writes: Hi. I am really worried about something. I've been masturbating since I was very young (I always remember doing it, although at the time I didn't know what it was, just that it felt good). Anyway, I did it by laying on my stomach and pushing on my vagina until I orgasmed basically. The problem: I'm 22 years old, and that's still the only way (well I lay on my back now and insert my fingers also), but the problem is when I'm with a guy I can't get off unless I push at the top of my vagina. It hurts too much for him to touch my clitoris. Does anyone know how I could fix this? I'm scared that I'll never get any pleasure unless I push on it, which seems immature.
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reader, mystify +, writes (13 March 2006):
 try lying on top of him with your leg along side his( not straddling or sitting, rather laying on him) this way you will be in control of things & get cliterol stimulation without it being too much and being at the right angle for this kind of stimulation plus its kinda the same way you learned it (pushing on it) , take things from there
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2006): If you are with a partner that you can trust, explain to him what it is that you like. Once he learns that technique you two might get comfortable enough to try other techniques. If this doesn't appeal to you or work if you try it, I would seek out help from the right professional (you are much too young to be denied the benefits of having a lover).
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (9 March 2006):
 You need to experiment with positions, there are lots of different ones and one will make you orgasm, so get practicing and enjoy the practice.
It seems to me that you may have it fixed in your head that pushing on your vagina is the only way you are going to orgasm, with trying different positions this will show you that you can achieve orgasm in other ways.
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