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41-50,
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writes:i need to know how to keep my marriage ,my husbands says i eat out to much that is why we have no money ,an he hates his jobs .and why he throws everything right or wrong back in my face and what can i do to just keep peace at home with our kids and i .and another thing i love my husband being in the army and want him to make a career out of it but he just wants to be there for the part of them paying for school .he is only reserve .i want him to go full time it has alot more benifits and health care an better pay .help i want to crawl under a rock an never come out
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (9 March 2008):
 I don't think you should decide what you want your husband to do for his career. It is his choice. He must know what he wants and if you push him into something that will not make him happy then neither of you will be happy. That is not what a marriage is about.
I think the two of you should sit down and do a budget and see where the money is being spent and try to manage a home where you both can be happy.
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reader, Alexsavisertavis +, writes (9 March 2008):
Well a choice is couples therapy, if not then just talk it out with your husband, maybe have sex for stress relive
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