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writes:i m in relationship with my friends wife, i had feelings for her but never told because she is my friends wife. after the gap of about 1 year i used to visit their house. their i saw that my friends behaviour with his wife was so rude and he does'nt care about her. he beat her lots of times like hell. i told him to take care of his wife and his baby but he always ignored me. i felt pity for her. i and his wife were good friends . i used to help her in her work. after about month she proposed me and i was shocked . i said u r my friends wife we should not think like that but she didnt stop and we started sharing our feelings.but we didnt know that we r fallin in love. we both didnt want to seperate before 1 month my friend knew everything she took all blame on her and he again beat her like hell. and take her far from this city but she still gives me a call and nobody knows about that.should she leave him because she doesnt want to live with him.please help me and tell me what to do..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): She should leave him. That is no way for a woman to be treated and no way for her to spend her life. If she has a child with him, thats more reason to leave. A baby shouldn't grow up to see his mother treated that way. If it's a girl, she'll think its ok for her husband to beat her. If it's a boy, he'll think it's ok to beat his wife. Also, it's very painful to see such things happening in the house for a child. If you care for this woman, help her as much as you can. She needs to be far away from this man and consult a lawyer so she can have divorce papers mailed to him. I think she should tell the police too.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 Yes, she should leave him!! No man is allowed to beat his wife FULL STOP!!
She needs to get her child, her things, and leave as soon as possible!
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