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My lover is taking trips with her ex alone, is that right?

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Question - (21 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am a lesbian, I am dating a Bisexual woman of 9 months. She remains friends with an ex boyfrined from a relationship for a year. Now they are planning trips to Haiwai and Las vegas alone. She gets jeaulous if I hang out with friends. Do I have a right to be upset?

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntrcn is spot on, let her know how you feel, but try not to be angry.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (21 November 2007):

rcn agony auntI think her intentions could be questioned. I wouldn't approach in an upset way. Try to get her to see your side and why you're uncomfortable with this situation.

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A male reader, Samutsen Poland +, writes (21 November 2007):

Samutsen agony auntYou know they will sleep together, Dont you. Whats bothering you? The fact that they will sleep together or that she will go without you. You have no right to question the fact that she sleeps with a man because she is BI.

If it is second you might be right. Or better put it is natural. Because she will be having fun without YOU. It would be the same if she was your normal friend. Friends get jealous about each other too. See she get jealous of the fact taht you hang out with others.

But there is nothing you can do except showing your jealosy mildly.

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