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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. We share our time together. I love him very much. But now he is very busy. So I feel very lonely. One month ago I was found a really nice guy. He takes care of me and he always been there for me. He was everything I wanted. And I think I am in love with him. I've never stopped thinking about him. I feel this man is my soulmate. I'm very confused. I don't know what wrong with me. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): busy men. i know that too well. i feel very lonley in my relashionship. its been five years since we met. firstly it was great to have 'space" now that same space feels like an empty hole. I wanna have kids, but i dont want kids alone. he has to be there and he is proving to be a man who is mostly concearn about having time to "do his own thing" if there is time over he loves to spend it with me. thats the confusing part. we also have good times, but its too little and dosent "fill my hole" (hahha could be sexual...but i mean it in adifferent way of cours)can i accpect a man to fill this emplyness/lonleyness i feel?
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reader, Tabbie +, writes (6 July 2005):
I'm having the same problem.. sorry but I dont have an answer..lol.. I'd like one tho. I have also been with my b/f for 4 years and feel lonley and started going out with this other guy who is 18 years older then me. But I think I love him, but I don't know if he feels the same way, and I don't want to just toss everything out the window with my b/f..yikes..lol.
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reader, Matt,20 +, writes (6 July 2005):
Hi,As said above, one month can never determine a person as a soulmate, Is this new guy that you met is aware of your feelings? Is he also aware that your have a long relationship already ? ... If yes , what were his responses ? the purpose of this is to know his reactions towards the above mentioned.What I could best reccomend you is the following, I don't know if you live with your boyfriend or not, which knowing that can make a difference on the answer.But lets take that out of the picture, I know that if you take 5 minutes you will admit that what about to say it's true:Basically you said this your self, because you feel lonely, you want someone to be there for you, care and everything else that can make you feelings as it was before, you have met this new guy that you seem to be very happy with, but don't you think that because you been lonely this feeling can be tricky? think about it...A four year relationship is very much, incredibly much to just leave it or atleast have doubt about just for a person that you know for a month ?... discuss you feelings with your boyfriend, tell him exactly how your feel and what can both of you, because he can't do anything by himself or neither can you, can do about the relatioship...let him know how you feel about the relationship, as ugly this may sound, I would prefer not to tell you boyfriend, YET ... about the guy you have met, infact don't even think about to bring him into the picture here...Another thing that I'm concern of is the " too busy " boyfriend, trying to approach him and talk to him of such issue which is very serious, can be a little hard, I will advice you to find the time, find the right place to discuss this, as for the sound of " too busy " I get the idea of can be " stressed " and that can lead to a complete mess if you catch him during that time, but on the other hadn , you've been together with him for gour years, so I do believe that you know him well, and know his feelings too.I wish you all the best of luck, I hope my answer helped you.Matt,20.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
If you feel that your relationship with your current boyfriend is having problems, then you must talk to him about it with him as soon as possible.you have only known this other man a month so how do you know he is your soulmate?I think you are feeling lonely and spending more time with your boyfriend would help so you need to have a talk about things.
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