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writes: Dear Cupid,Well I have problems with my gf we both live far I live in California she lives in Toronto she recently moved from Vancouver because of Uni.She thinks im possesive but Im really not I trust her.I admit I was at first but then I changed I trust her fully now she goes to club with other guys over there we both have trust she goes shopping I dont mind or anything. I trust her but sometimes we have little fights like she says something I say its lame or something and she gets offended and I say sorry but shes gets mad.I said it was a lame word because It meant something else totally diffrent not saying it was lame how she said it so yeah.Then she said sorry and that was done then we start talking normally having normal convos shes working a lot and doing other stuff so i send a pic of me thru phone cam to her phone.Then we start having some fun and she says something about my pic but I know its nothing bad and shes joking but i say something about her and she gets offended again we have big arguement and she says she wants to be over with this relationship its been almost a year weve met in real life also spent great times and she wants to end it like this?I think she already Ended it I'm trying to call her sent her lots of text msgs and kept calling her dorm phone and cellphone she doesnt pick up what should I do?I want her back but how? Or should I let her go? theres so many things we did together I dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): i say..u text her n say 'ive been trying to get thru to u,i love u and dont want to loose u. if u dont want to get back together, thats fine, but at least hav one last convo with me to clear the air' and if she doesnt reply, then my freind, i know it will be hard,but move on, bcuz, as the saying goes 'when u love something,let it go and if it cums bak to u,then its urs for keeps and if not,it wasnt meant to be!..best of luck..if she don't get in touch then shes spinless and u deserve better..way better..freind x
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reader, LISAG +, writes (4 November 2006):
 I personally think this relationship has had it's day. Time to move on. Let her go - her loss. If she's already said "I want to be over with this relationship" - she means it. Quit wasting your time, people will end relationships whatever way is easiest and cowardly often. It's human nature. Find someone else who will appreciate your attention and who won't say horrible things as jokes! If she's ignoring your texts and calls then I'm afraid she's no longer interested. Plenty more fish in the sea. Good luck x
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