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writes:Hi, i am moving country in a few months with my husband. Well my husband and I have broke up a few months ago, said he was confused,but since then we have got back together, all is going ok so far. However we are moving country and the problem is his best friend, he flirts with me when i am with my husband, even has mentioned to my husband that after we broke up that if we break up again, its his turn to be with me, my husband just laugh this off after he told me this. My husband tells him everything about us, as he is very close to his best friend. Once his friend send me a very friendly text calling me his darling etc, (this was before i was married) Am i over reacting or is this something i need to worry about? Are guys friends really like this? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): Thanks guys for all you comments. Its seems this guy will stop at nothing, but yes i am in control of the situation, i am just uncomfortable when he does these things and wanted to see was i overreacting..obviously not. We will be living close to him, so its next to impossible to avoid him, so i will be controlling the situation. Thanks again...xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): NOPE! HUNNY
You need to take control and stop with the flirting its just giving him mixed messages, You either want to be happy in your marriage or free again, from what you say Im not sure you no... But this mate of your husbands sure knows what he wants love TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, eddie  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 You're in control of the situation. Anything that happens will be becasue you chose to let it happen. So it you can trust yourself, you're in no trouble.
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 You've heard the phrase "Men are dogs", it's true. Some of us however are in control of ourselves. I can't believe you are still with your husband after he laughs off a comment like that. He obviously doesn't care if you sleep with someone else. Don't let anyone control you. You decide what is best for you, but think about what you are doing and the consequences before you do anything. If you sleep with his best friend, what will it do to all of your friendships when your husband tells all of his friends and family. He will find out I assure you. I would avoid his friend like the plaque and if he persists ask him if he flirts with all of his friends wives. If you were not married it would be a different story. If this guy feels comfortable being with a married woman, how many married women has he been with? What do you want?
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