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writes:hi i am having problems between me and my husband he thinks i am cheating which i aint but my vagina farts like just about every time we have sex i have been with him for four and half years and one partner before him but he had problems getting it up so i dont consider it sex anyways i have recently lost 55 lbs as well and had my daughter three years age cesearean what is going on because it is causing alot of problems between my husband and i please help!!! p.s.and it has just recently began after losing the weight
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): If youve lost a lot of weight and he has issues with security. He might think you are cheating because youve changed recently, become slimmer. Therefore to him, more attractive....and you may be cheating beause of this! If hes slightly soft during sex it can sometimes cause queefing. Also, you had an extra 55lb packed inside your frame, which was putting pressure on everything, including your vagina. That would have made it feel tighter because it was being squeezed. Now the extra weight has gone it will feel differently to him. Just tell him not to be so silly because he is ruining your love making. Do some pelvic floor exercises and ask him to be careful not to pull out too far during love making, because its him pushing the air in, thats causing the problem. It might also be an idea to suggest he googles queefing and educates himself x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2010): It happens when air gets trapped in the vagina. It happens during sex because -- think about it -- his penis pushes air into the opening. It can also happen during stretching/exercise when the air is trapped and then released.
It has nothing to do with cheating or how big a man's penis is. Your husband needs to calm down.
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reader, rhodes +, writes (14 November 2010):
rhodes is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondoes queefing naturally mean you have had a big dick or cheated cause i have been with my husband for 4and a half years his dick is average size and does me great satisfaction why all of the sudden is this happening to me please help me
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 Why does he think you are cheating? Vaginal farts don't mean you are cheating? Whats the logic behind that?
I think you need to educate your husband on bodily functions and separate myth from fact here. He needs a wake-up call. Buy him a book on how the female body works if he wont listen.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 First possible reason: He's blaming and projecting his dysfunctions on you. Second possible reason: He's actually the one cheating himself, so he's accusing you to look innocent. Find out what his issues are. It could be medical, or psychological, like you became a mom figure and you are not the same girl he dated anymore. Just to reassure you moms are just as sexy as young girls. We know how to pleasure ourselves. Whenever he accuses you of something, all you have to say is no I didn't cheat, then leave the conversation if it makes you uncomfortable. If a woman gains 30 pounds during pregnancy and loses 55 lbs after that, it means you lose 25 pounds of your original weight, sounds drastic to me. As long as you are healthy then the problem is not you. It is hard to raise the issue of erectile dysfunction. A man who loves you would have gone to a doctor to improve his health, mental or physical.
I have heard a list of "valid reasons" that a man uses to make an accusation of cheating.
You look pregnant, is it by some other guy?
Your anus is always tight, but it's lose this time.
Your lips look swollen.
You look so happy today. Did a guy make you happy?
I didn't reach you by phone today. What's going on?
He's finding faults from you because it's too scary to look within. When you discover his dark secrets it means an end to his manhood, it means you would go out and look for an omega male to satisfy your needs. That's why it's all your fault now.
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (14 November 2010):
 It's completely normal, most people get it. It's just air that gets trapped inside. I get it all the time and me and my boyfriend just laugh about.
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