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writes:I have been married for 10 years. I love my husband. I love our family(three children).. I believe we are truly blessed. He told me a year ago that he didnt love me. I have been trying my best to keep it together. I t has been ok until recently. We do have a good sex life.,But he wont french kiss me anymore. He just gives me a peck good bye. What to do ? is he just in his cave?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 March 2010):
He's past the 'cave' thing. He's now out the cave and is talking. Ban him from sex, and ask him why he doesn't love you and whether he will come to counselling. If he won't do anything to fix it, then it's time to move on.
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (30 March 2010):
Is he playing a game more like. It is not the French you need to resolve but the issue of where he is at in this moment of time.
Having your head in the sand is not going to help you. Futhermore if he does not love you why do you permit him to have sex? Maybe your the one in the cave?
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reader, Kenj +, writes (30 March 2010):
 You could try packing the kids off to a babysitter then have a sit down talk with your husband, ask him whats changed and what you can both do to mend the situation. You tell him your feelings and be totally honest with him, ask him to be totally honest with you too.
I doubt he is just in his "cave" there is something more to this, as you probably know sex is not love.
If your having problems in your relationship then a councler may be able to help.
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