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My husband likes his bum licked, is this normal?

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Question - (31 January 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *myxavier writes:

Hi guys this is rather a funny question but it has been puzzling me for a while now. My husband likes me to lick his bottom whilst he masturbates lol!. I know it sounds funny and i have no problems doing this but is it normal? He has a bit of an obsession with my bum too. Do lots of straight guys like this or is there something i should know about his sexuality?

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (31 January 2011):

person12345 agony auntNot unusual or gay at all. It's called a rim job. If you both like it, why not? Just be careful of hygiene, since that is how you get ecoli (though usually from not washing your hands enough before eating or cooking). Lots of guys love having that area given some attention, especially being fingered or otherwise penetrated since the "male G-spot" is up there.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (31 January 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntThe only way my husband would be able to get me to "toss his salad" would be for him to cover his butt in Ranch dressing and bacon bits.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (31 January 2011):

dirtball agony auntIt can also be called having your salad tossed. I've never been into it, but plenty of guys are. Nothing gay about it. It's just what he likes. If you don't have a problem with it, then no worries!

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A female reader, lacrymosa_652 United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2011):

lacrymosa_652 agony auntUsing your tongue to stimulate the anus [i.e. bum-licking! sorry, I was at a loss as to how to phrase it haha] is called rimming. I'm sure more people than you'd expect do this, but because it concerns the anus it's probably a bit taboo. It doesn't mean your man is gay, a straight guy would be equally stimulated - they'd just want a woman doing it. So yes, it's not unusual and it's definitely normal, in my opinion anyway. It's just that no-one discusses it really so it seems more unusual than it actually is.

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A female reader, dollface1 South Africa +, writes (31 January 2011):

dollface1 agony auntHi

Okay I have noticed you get two types of guys boob guys and bum guys now my boyfriend loves my bum to and usually wants to have anal sex, so in that aspect its normal, because most greek men do it and its called greek style.

now your husband likes having his bum licked maybe because

his g-spot sits in his bum, well no one can say what is normal, "different strokes for different oaks" different people like different things. start questioning when he wants you to shove things in his bum!

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