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writes:Why does my husband want to have threesomes with his long time male buddy and me? When he first tried to get me to do this by playing stip video games, I was very upset and went to my bedroom alone in tears. He continued to try to get this arrangement going with numerous friends (aquaintances) of his (all male) and in different circumstances. Is he gay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): No your Husband in not gay just because he wants to share you with another man. I would suggest doing some reading on the subject of Cuckolding and the hotwife lifestyle. You might also find the book called "The Ethical Slut" is a great read. Open your mind to different possiblitys in life and you might just have an experance you never knew you'd love so much. In anycase comunication is the key here. Don't you want to know his fantacys and why they turn him on so? Good luck to you in whatever you do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): If he is not gay, he is really stupid. If you feel bad abouth this and he won't come to his senses, you should leave him.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Maybe he is just curious, have you asked him if he wants to join in with the male or just both do you as it were!! Two of my exes pestered and pestered for 3somes with me and another female and I always took the view that if you really loved me you wouldnt want another female and you wouldnt put this pressure on me. However some couples have lots of fun and enjoy this kind of thing so you have to decide what is right for you rather than worrying if he is gay x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Gay or not; knowing your feeling on the subject, he is demonstrating insensitivity towards your feelings.His requests are likely fueled by porn fantasies, acting them out when you're not into them, especially with people you know, can be very damaging to a relationship. On the other hand, watching my woman experience sexual pleasure seem pretty hot to me. If you and only if you feel comfortable with it, a public swingers event where neither of you participated might be a safe place to explore your feelings.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Maybe he is gay, and this is his manner of introducing another man into the bedroom.
I have a little personal problem with this kind of request. I wonder how anyone can want his woman to have sex with another man. Being cheated on is horribly painful, and that happens against your wishes. So I wonder how it can be that a man will want his wife or woman sleep with someone else in your presence and because he wanted it. It's just too crazy for me. But that's me.
What I know for sure is that you have already made it clear how a threesome would upset you, and he keeps insisting. I think he won't stop unless you give him some serious and strong sign.
Hope this helps.
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (30 May 2008):
 I dont think he is gay .. I just think he likes seeing you having sex w someone else ... I wish my BF wanted MFM instead of MFF .. I would never do that tho . im too jealous . lol
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