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*ikki3
writes:I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been married for 3 yrs together for 6 and were young, im 21 and hes 23, we have 2 beautiful boys together. when we go out in public i'll catch him looking at other girls, a couple of times he will just slip out and say "dam" and just move his lower body forward. even while our children are there. i know i might be a little over weight but i dont know if that has anything to do with it please help somebody.
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reader, Melys  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 I think your husband is being totally selfish and disrespectful towards you. Why does he feel the need to make that comment when he sees an attractive girl! It seems like he's trying to wind you up! That's no way to treat you, I'm sorry. I think you should talk to him and ask him to keep his pervy thoughts to himself cause it's upsetting you and taking your confidence away...Good luck x
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reader, dulce*candy  +, writes (7 November 2009):
 theres nothing wrong with ou love
and i think your husband should STOP LOOKING AT PORN AND CHEKING OUT OTHER GIRLS...talk to him,,this has to stop
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (7 November 2009):
No, it's because your husband is a jerk. I completely agree with what caringguy said. Just about every guy looks at porn or checks out other women, but your husband doesn't need to act like a disgusting pig about it.
Making a remark and dry-humping the air is something a 15-year old boy does, not a 23-year old man! Definitely time for a talk and let him know how it makes you feel (weight issue and all)...I would be very embarrassed and feel completely disrespected if my husband acted in that manner.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 November 2009):
First of all there's nothing wrong with you. This is about him being very tactless and not all that great as a husband.
Nearly every guy looks at porn sometime, but genreally deletes the history. The reason we look at it is that porn is a visual aid that we respond to very well.
As for lookking at other women, men do that too, but not as tactlessly as your husband. I would realy suggest that you tell him it's upsetting you that he watches porn and spends his time talking about and looking at other women and you would at least prefer it if he was private about it. Talk to him about how you feel, and hopefully he'll listen.
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