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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your help. It is nice to read your comments and suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Honeypie: thanks for such a straight forward question. My answer is yes without doubt. But I don't want a situation where he would still be in touch with her by other means.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Honeypie: thanks for such a straight forward question. My answer is yes without doubt. But I don't want a situation where he would still be in touch with her by other means.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am new here and wanted to say thank you for your supports so far.
@baddogbj Yes, my husbans is going through a lot of stress at the moment. i) work - lack of progress and other issues: ii) financial at home and iii) family expectations.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am new here and wanted to say thank you for your supports so far.
@baddogbj Yes, my husbans is going through a lot of stress at the moment. i) work - lack of progress and other issues: ii) financial at home and iii) family expectations.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am still new here so please forgive me. I wanted to respond to baddogbj question. Yes my husband has been under an enormous amount of stress. i) at work, ii) financial pressure and iii) family expectations.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 August 2010):
Your husband sounds like a bit of a crank to me. No offence there. But when someone suggests that 'it was foretold', then there are problems.
I agree with HoneyPie - either he cuts contact with this woman, or you need to think about whether you can be with a man who really believes that fate will lead him to her.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (6 August 2010):
 Honestly, I would sit him down and tell him to shit or get off the pot.
You should have to wait around for him to make up his mind. He might think the grass is greener with her, but i'm betting he is in for a RUDE awakening.
Now, do YOU want to stay with him ?
I would not sit and accept his "playing" with fate...
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Wow. It is tough to compete with "foretold" what with your relationship being only a single / current lifetime thing whereas they are star-crossed lovers reunited across multiple lifetimes.
I can see why you find this a little exasperating. I have had an altogether unhealthy number of affairs and have run through the whole gamut of self-serving justifications but haven't yet tried the reunited from a previous lifetime angle.
Has your husband been experiencing a lot of stress recently?
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