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anonymous
writes:ok i know my husband really truly loves me and after screwing up 3 times already by talking dirty to girls he dont know online says he dont know y he does it he doesnt deserve me and actually cried the last time and i never seen him cry. i know without a doubt he isnt physically cheating. and ontop of that when we have sex sometimes he wants to pretend he is a friend of his and im doing him instead but would never let that actually happen. i dont know what to make of this and dont know how to get the online thing to stop. i dont completely mind us pretending in bed if he really likes that but i mean come on what could be going on in his head when talking to other girls knowin i will find out someway somehow. is there a actual disease for this type of thing or what? and its always about threesomes. what do i do i really love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011): its not any disease but something to do with his mental health. Please visit a sex therepist since he is not satisfied with something. If nothing works, consider taking him to meditation classes [Not Yoga. Yoga is too sexy these days ! :) ].
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011): Well he might not have physically cheated but he is emotionally cheating, He is desiring other women and talking to them provocatively. That in my book is cheating.
I think you can do , and deserve much better than a guy like that.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (7 July 2011):
 Usually when people start going online for sexual purposes, they feel like they need that attention because they're not getting it in real life.
Sometimes the online thing can turn into real life cheating, so it would be best to nip it in the bud as soon as you can.
Try and be more thoughtful towards him and see if he changes. Or just ask him, "do you feel as if I don't give you enough attention?". Just sit down, and be honest with one another.
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reader, Boy X  +, writes (7 July 2011):
He sounds rather strange.
There is no disease, he is just a very stupid man.
Personally I would suggest you leave that creeper.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (7 July 2011):
it sounds to me that maybe he has some fantasies he would like to play out and he obviously hasnt told you i would ask him what they are and maybe play them out if you are comfortable with doing so and also start talking dirty to him in bed he,ll love it
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