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writes:When giving oral pleasure,my man always makes me get out of the way when he is going to climax and not swallow.After he produces, he points to the wet spot and says, that it is gross. I don't feel that way. I think it is normal part of the act. He also has problems with premature ejaculation. We have been together for 11 yrs. I have never brought it up. I just figured that is what he "wanted" during lovemaking. I find it kinda strange. I figure most men want you to swallow. Has anyone ever encountered this? What are your thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): oh this brings bak so many memories.. me and my boyfriend are very playful with each other and we always make fun after sex and just muck around and cuddle!
he has no problem with kissing me afterwards or anythin =\ dunno if i should have shared that but yehh... he finds it a turn on but respects i dont like it much!
ask him why he reacts this way? do you want to swallow?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): I am the poster of this question.Yes, he has no problems going down on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): I have no idea, because my guy is THE EXACT SAME. But he's not premature, it actually takes him a long time....i dont mind it atall it makes it all the better in the end because he loves to cuddle after. But i dont get it maybe somthin happened to them when they were little..(some one walking in) that maybe they dont wanna see it..?
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reader, duce00 +, writes (26 August 2007):
 My experience on this is I was only turned off if she wanted to kiss me right away afterwards. Cuming on my woman would have been weird...like I was tring to be a porn star or somthing. Thank god they never had an issue with this. I think its only fair, I never had an issue with juices on my face and in my mouth from oral so why should she?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 I tend to think that most men find it a huge turn on when a woman wants to swallow. Most probably don't swallow. It seems to be interpreted as a woman who's a little more liberal. He may happen to be one of the men who don't enjoy it. I had a friend who didn't like to perform oral on women. I could never understand it but that was what he thought. There are many ways to have sex and some people just don't like certain things. Is swallowing his cum something you enjoy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): Yeah. My bf is grossed out by sperm too. Like I've heard him say "gross" or make a face when he comes outside of me. I have never tried to swallow it cause I think its gross! lol. Not the sperm but swallowing it you know? But I don't know how my bf would feel about swallowing. I bet he wouldn't mind though. I think?Maybe he just can't stand the thought of kissing you after you had sperm in your mouth. Or maybe he is doing it out of "respect" for you. Like maybe if he was with a slut he would come in her mouth. So, maybe you could dress up for him or act more slutty.Tell him that it turns you off when he doesn't let you swallow his sperm. Tell him it kills the moment for you. (But be real nice about it). You know guys have no issue about complaining to us girls what they want and how we can be better (no matter how we feel about it), so you should do the same.
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