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*essaboo
writes:This isnt a real big problem but i would like to kno other peoples advice on it.ok well my girlfriend has this guy friend they have known eachother for years. no problem there right. well i found out that he has had the biggest crush on her all the years they been friends and is like deeply in love with her and i mean its soo obvious because u can tell by the way he looks at her and he would do anythin for her i mean yea friends will but he would let her sit on her ass and pay for watever she needed if she wanted it.if she ever has money problems or anythin hes there which is a good thing but my problem is should i feel ok with the fact hes in love with my girlfriend but they are stil best friends in her eyes but wat does he really want out of it all?? i mean i am takin advice from people that told me to be more confident and i thought about it i dont think she will cheat wit him at all but its jus the fact knowin how he feels about her. in the past he wanted us to hook up but a month into our relationship he started alot of rumors that she was cheatin on me and then lied to her face about them but he was tellin all our friends. does that make sense?? so should i trust him or should i think hes tryna get good wit me to be closer to her?? theres soo much more to the story but i dont want to blame on jus tell me wat u think bout all this soo far??
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reader, nessaboo +, writes (18 March 2008):
nessaboo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea and see wen i asked him if he loved her he said no and i kno for sure he does cuz u can tell by the way he looks at her if sumone who neva met him before met him one time and said that they can tell witout me tellin them anythin i think thats funny lol so wats wrong wit him?? and its like he can get her against me sumtimes because she dun think he would eva try breakin us up wat is it that i say??
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (14 March 2008):
 I see problems in the future with this guy. And I see problems for her in letting him go in the future, since he did all those nice things for her. After all, she wouldn't want to have let him do all those nice things for her, and then dismissed him. This might make her feel bad, as if it looked like she used him. Talk to her and express your concern.
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (14 March 2008):
 I had a so-called girlfriend do that to me with my exhusband when we were together. She tried to get close to me in order to get closer to him and it worked for two years. we had a terrible time getting past this. I should have left him then, but didn't due to our 5 year old daughter at that time. I eventually won out, but not without him fallng in love iwht her and cheating on me. Eventually, after 15 years later, I left him. He'd done it again. Learn once is too much.
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reader, Danixcuntxface +, writes (14 March 2008):
Dude. Hes a problem. a guy like that broke me and my ex up. So yaaa...u shud do sumthin about him cuz wen rumors start shit happens
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reader, nessaboo +, writes (14 March 2008):
nessaboo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno he dont look after her more than i do lol i hate wen they give these things their own name he jus wants to do all those things for her!!!!!
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