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male
age
36-40,
*lbo1
writes:I have been dating the most amazing girl for the past 2 years. I know she is the one I want to spend my life with but there are several issues I cannot seem to overcome. Her mom seems very possessive of her and controlling. example she lies to her mother on the phone about where she is so she does not say she is with me. Her mother gives her a curfew and enforced very aggressively with phone calls and texts. When ever my baby is with me and her mom calls everything gets put on hold. She is 21 and I have met her mother and family and I have accepted them into my life. But when her mom says jump she asks how high. I do not want to get in the middle of their relationship but I also do not like being neglected. When she goes home its as if my texts and phone calls dont matter as much. It makes me real sad because I have given her everything she could want. I plan on marring this girl and we both want to do it. This is the first long term relationship I have ever been in. I dont want to fight for her attention anymore. I am lost
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (18 April 2012):
 You have to talk to her about this and tell her what you've told us.
All the best I hope it works out for you.
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