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Do you know what may be causing this?

Q.   this may sound like a really dumb question but im kind of worried. i dont think theres any need to be worried but id like to make sure before i come to nay conclusions. it isnt a question about relationships o anything but its quite embarrasing you ...

A.   7 November 2007: Hi, It does sound like it could be any number of medical conditions. There are also things that just basically cause urinary urgency. But in general, any change that you have in your bladder or bowel habits should bring you to go to the doctor. ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with my boyfriend or not?

Q.   please help me......im 18 i have a boyfriend bt i love someone else too who also adores me but hes 28 and works with me and im scared to tell anyone or dont no wat to do....should i break up with my bf or not??im so confused...

A.   7 November 2007: Hey! HMmmm, not an easy situation to be in... I think that a lot of things come into account: - how long have you been with your bf? - are you sure that you 'love' this other guy? how do you know it's just b/c it's a new thing that different a... (read in full...)

I don't think he really finished with her.

Q.   this is just generally a letter spilling how i'm feeling to people, becasue i dont have anyone to really talk o it about... i'll sum it up.. i was seeing this guy for bout 2 months, bout 5 weeks into it i found out he was cheating on me with his e...

A.   7 November 2007: Hey hun, Im so sorry that he couldn't figure out his stuff. I've been in the exactly same situation when i was about your age. It sucks. You feel cheated but at the same time you try and understand because a) you're nice and you know that it'... (read in full...)

My sister has decided to get engaged the same weekend as me. Am I wrong to ask her to do it a different time?

Q.   Well, my dilemma is this- my bf and I were just away for a week on holidays and while he was away he proposed (totally surprised me!) I was SOOO happy, and we waited to get home to tell our families. When I got home I told my family including my ...

A.   29 October 2007: hey, hmmm, this one could lead to awkward situations no matter what you do. well, i would probably talk to her and tell her that if she's in a huge rush to get engaged then fine, but just don't make a huge announcement of it for a few weeks. or... (read in full...)

Do I report my boyfriend for domestic violence or not?

Q.   I have known my bf for years, and have dated for a few months now. He beat me up pretty badly, all my xrays and catscans came back fine, but the police were called by the hospital and they want me to report it. i don't know what i should do, i don't ...

A.   29 October 2007: hmmmm, a good question. i would probably report it. the fact that he could cause you some potentially serious injuries shows that this will not be a one time incident. if he doesn't do it again to you then he will do it again to another girl and ... (read in full...)

My ex won't leave me alone and I'm scared of dating.

Q.   When I was 15 i starting dating a guy who was really nice. We got engaged after just a few weeks, fast I know but we were young. After about 9 months during an argument he hit me across my face. I was really confused at the time I thought he loved ...

A.   29 October 2007: Hey hun, I know that it's hard to break ties with someone that you knew and loved for so long in your life. And someone that you were engaged with for so long makes it even harder. But he's not healthy for you. It's ok for you to still care abo... (read in full...)

Does this happen to anyone else?

Q.   I wanted to know if this was normal or not. Why is it that when ever i have sex with my boyfriend and im a few days away from getting my period we have sex and either I start my period right after we finish having sex or I will get my period the ...

A.   26 October 2007: Hi there, Well, it does make sense, because you have all that tissue in your uterus and sex and bring it on as it's pushing pressure along your vagina and likely causing these tiny little micro-contractions in ur uterus. basically having sex is l... (read in full...)

How can I get off with him without upsetting my friend?

Q.   I fancy my friends' boyfriend. But it's not as simple as that. She Doesn't fancy him much. She said so herself. She Doesn't want to dump him because he's 'sweet'. but i acctually like him properly. i also think he likes me to, but i dont want to do ...

A.   26 October 2007: hmmm, a tough call... i think ur best bet would be to talk with ur friend openly. Just say that you see that she doesn't really feel that strongly about him but that you can't help but feel a certain way for him. let her know that you won't do ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm only in his life because he doesn't want to be alone after his wife died, am I wrong?

Q.   Okay, here goes. MY sisters best friend died four months ago. Her husband left to care for four children on his home spent many a night drinkin and getting high. One night he invited me round and after that night he texted me often and I'd ...

A.   26 October 2007: Hi, That doesn't seem like a very comfortable situation. I personally don't think that 4 months is nearly enough time for someone to mourn over the death of their wife, their partner, their best friend. I agree with the previous comment in that ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy?

Q.   Is it normal for a woman's vagina to smell fishy? And is it a turn off for men? What if he keeps coming back for more?...

A.   26 October 2007: Hi, well, a slight odour isnt something to be super concerned with but it could be an STI (ie. bacterial vaginosis has this as a common symptom). Just make sure that you have good hygiene (shower daily) and use non-perfurmed soaps that can anno... (read in full...)

If I'm single, I'm fine, but once I am involved, I become so insecure!

Q.   I always fear sooo insecure in relationships. Im usualy ok/fine when im single....but as soon as i get into a relationship im not fine. Why is this? ...

A.   26 October 2007: Hi, hahahaha, im pretty similar to that actually. sometimes i actually just go to a different room from my boyfriend and say to myself that im strong and independent, etc. here's my theory to our little dilemma here: i think that when you're... (read in full...)

My girlfriend started college and is "too busy" for me, can she be cheating on me?

Q.   My Girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now. In september she started college. When she first started she always told me we could hang out the next night becuase seh was to busy with "things" this night, but the next night never came for ...

A.   26 October 2007: Hi, Well, when i started reading ur question i thought about my first year at uni and thought about how excited/terrified i was about it. she's probably just trying to make new friends and fit in and adjust to the uni lifestyle. on... (read in full...)

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