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writes:My girlfriend of 5 years quite frequently accuses me of cheating because I don't always cum quick enough for her or if I don't want to have sex. We have a very satisfying relationship and are quite experimental. How can improve upon this situation as i am not cheating and she definetly still turns me on.? Reply to this Question
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reader, bemused  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 This does not sound like it is a cheating issue as much as a trust thing. You have been together five years and the va va boom goes out a little bit after that time and is replaced often with something more steady and caring. Sounds like that is what has happened here. As I look at your age it would seem the two of you got together at about..say thirteen. If she is eighteen perhaps the steady and stable may not be what she is about right now and confused that things have slowed down..in her minds eye you could be cheating. All you can do is tell her what you have said in this post. You mention the relationship is sexually satisfying...I trust you are making her feel loved and needed in other ways. I say make her feel valued and see how this plays out. You did get together pretty young and she may be wondering what else is out there...no reflection at all on you...just her wondering. Hope it works out and keep us posted.
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