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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:We were together 14 months and I thought all was well. Then out of blue she decided to split with me, saying she couldn't be with me at the moment but that she loved me and I have a special place in her heart.Since then we've still seen each other, still gone on nights out and still sleep together. But any suggestion to get back is stopped in its tracks.She says she desperately wants me back but can't just yet, and that's it.Everyone is telling me to walk away from her, but I want to give marriage guidence a go. I suggested it once and she said she'd think about it. She never mentioned it since and that was 2 months ago. But she does that, unless you keep bringing things up, she won't deal with it. She's scared that marriage guidence will suggest we go our seperate ways, and she doesn't want to lose me.Can anyone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (8 March 2009):
 Sorry are you married?
I really think she is taking you for a ride here, she is getting to live the fun single life, while having you running around for her and sleeping with her when she feels like it.
Get a backbone and sort yourself out! Of course she doesn't want to loose you, you are easily controlled, I don't think this has anything to do with love.
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