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My girlfriend ignores my calls and only calls back when she needs something

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Question - (29 December 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 December 2014)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, *lalom writes:

I have been with my girlfriend over 4year now since then she have been doing some wrong thing in which I just let it go ,but now I can't take it any more she hot my feeling that sometime I feel like crying If call her and she saw the missed calls, she will not finish or call back not until I call back again ,since when I knew her I was the one who use to call the only way she can call is when she need something from or want me to do something for her,sometime she just come up by causing burden .I don't just understand all this I even thought she going out with someone easy may be that is why she doing that to me but she not like that I trust her in that area she did not double date .but I find it diffcut to know why is she doing this to me........pls can someone help me out am die here.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (30 December 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif the only time she wants to have contact with you is when you can do something for her, then she's using you.

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A female reader, Bcoco United Kingdom +, writes (30 December 2014):

Dear Slalom,

Don'd be discouraged, maybe something that you are unaware about is going on in her life. It would be wise if you went to where she lived and discussed what is going on, because there would be no where to escape for her and she'd have to tell you what is going on.

She is, however, seemingly making your life very hard and no other human should have the right put you down in any way. You deserve the bets and she is obviously making your life rather difficult. You really need to talk to her, face to face.

Or, give her a taste of her own medicine: don't call her, ignore her when she calls, if she asks something from you tell her to do it herself; let her understand the pain that you are going through at the moment.

Hope this helped a little, Good Luck


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