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writes: My girlfriend dumped me last year around same time. We remained in a relationship for two year. Since I couldn't get a good job in given dateline of one year to convince her parents for her hands, she ran out of patience with me and dumped. I don’t blame her for dumping me as it was me who, despite his all efforts, couldn’t land himself a decent job to impress her parents for her hand. Even since she dumped me, I have been crying all night and can’t forget the moments I spent with her. Guys, please tell me what should I do now? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 I think the reason that she dumped you was very shallow, at the end of the day she thought more of money than she did of you. This is not true love. Because if it was she would still be with you and wouldn't care about if you could find a good job or not. She thinks more of stability and money than true love. She is not worth the tears any more. You need to get out of this rut you are in and start looking forward to the future and new possibilities. She is in your past now so leave it in the past and plan out the rest of your life now. You need to accept that it is over and take control of your life. Put all your thoughts and efforts in to making YOURSELF happy. Plan goals. Ask yourself what kind of work you want to do and write down a plan to achieve these goals. Meet up with friends and enjoy a good social life. Keep yourself busy and focused and stop your mind from thinking about your ex all day long, its the past, its time to let go of it and look in to the future. Any reminders you have in your home of her well then get rid of them.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (12 November 2011):
 Your motivation of getting a job shouldn't be to seek approval. Do it for yourself. A perfect girlfriend could not help you find out what you want to do in life. You can open up opportunities of getting a job by volunteering and mentoring youth, or just by talking to more people, even security guards in buildings, who might give you a head start or tips in life. Successful people focus on opportunities, poor people focus on obstacles.
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